It is very sad to see couples that still love each other but can't seem to be able to keep their relationship on the right course. Some consider divorce rather than going through a struggle of trying to save their marriage. Depending on the situation almost all marriages can be saved if both parties are willing to work on the problems that are causing so much trouble. If there is kids involved you really need to consider the affects that a divorce will have on them mentally.
Marriage is a beautiful partnership shared by two people. The key word is Partnership. It takes both of you to make a marriage work, one can't do it alone. In order to have a healthy marriage each individual has to work equally as hard to keep the fire alive that allows us to want and desire our partner. When couples are no longer attracted to each other a break up is right around the corner. I am not talking just about physical attraction, people are attracted to each other in several ways. This is why it is important to work on what the attraction is in the relationship in order to still desire your partner.
Little things can make a big difference in helping to keep the fire alive in a relationship. For instance, leaving a simple I love you note by the coffee pot. Just think how that would make you feel to find a note all along saying I love you. It would feel good right? Just to know that our partner is thinking of us makes us feel good. Try buying a simple card to say something that you are feeling or buy flowers sometimes. You don't have to spend a fortune to show someone that you love them, its the small things that they cherish most.
At least once a day you should express how you truly feel to your partner. What better way than just flat out telling them every day how much love and care for them. These are things that keep couples together forever and the things that we all want to here. Just doing little things for each other will keep both of you interested and in love with each other. So before considering a divorce, please give love a chance and save that wonderful marriage you both wanted to begin with.
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