5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex

 The delicate bond of a relationship has to be maintained in order for it to grow and remain healthy. Although breaks do happen, it can be very frustrating and painful. If are in a broken up relationship you maybe thinking that you want to get back at your ex for a reason, but is this right thing to do? By showing your ex what you were to them and how important you are, can have a tremendous effect in the plan that you have for getting back at your ex, and also help repair the relationship. I have put together 5 tips that I think are essential steps to help you get back at your ex, and that will make them want you back.

•  Step 1- Be Tough not Weak. Move on, when you are not begging and showing that you are desperate your ex will decide that he is the one that has not moved on. They can't stand the thought that you have moved on and are doing fine without them. No one needs a needy person, remember that.

• Step 2- Slow down contact with your ex. By not communicating with your ex can start to rekindle things in the relationship. This is a very important step to help you get back your ex. This allows both of you to clear your minds and gives your ex time stew over things. Eventually your ex will see how important the relationship with you really is.

• Step 3- Be flexible. Don't be demanding, such as get your things out by such and such a date. Sympathize, listen to what they have to say, don't be mean. Showing this side of you will surprise your ex and help to open up lines of communication that have not existed in the relationship for some time.

• Step 4- Go Out. I am not telling you to date or anything in that nature, but go out with your friends just to get out of the house and enjoy life a little. You really need friends during this time to help comfort you. This will also help your ex see what he has lost.

• Step 5- Just be yourself. If you think about it, this is what attracted your ex to you in first place. By being yourself your ex will eventually remember what he fell in love with and want to get you back.